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Birthday suit. Bite off more than one can chew. Bite one's head off. Bite the bullet. An expression meaning to decide to do something difficult or unpleasant that one has been putting off. Blind ambition. An expression meaning to seek to improve only things for yourself, not like ambition, which is about improving and changing things in the world. Blind as a bat. An expression meaning not being able to see very well bats use echolocation, rather than sight. Going out with someone whom you have never met, usually arranged by a mutual friend. Blindside someone.

An expression meaning to simply to do or say something the person is utterly unprepared for. Blowing a lot of hot air. Blow one's horn. An expression meaning to be boastful about one's own accomplishments, similar to "toot one's own horn". An expression meaning the outcome of a competition was completely one-sided, similar to "landslide". An expression meaning to try to mislead or threaten someone by giving false or exaggerated information. Blue in the face.

An expression meaning to get no result no matter how much effort is attempted. An expression meaning to retend to have a capability or intention one does not actually possess. Bob's your uncle. It means "it's not what you know, but who you know" referring to unearned favoritism, named after the British prime minister Robert "Bob" Cecil who appointed his undeserving nephew as Chief Secretary of ireland in It can also mean "and there you have it" Example: "Right over left, left over right, and Bob's your uncle, a knot.

Boil over or boiling point. Literally, to flow over the sides of something boiling, it means not being able to control one's anger, starting a fight. Bone chilling. Bottom's up. Break a leg. Bred in the bone. An expression describing something firmly established or deep-rooted, similar to "died in the wool".

Bright-eyed and bushy-tailed. An expression meaning to intimidate someone into doing something, usually with stern or abusive words. Brown-nose, ass-kisser, kiss-ass. Someone who sucks up to you to gain your favor. This is done by doing something for you for no apparent reason, laughing even if something wasn't funny, agreeing to everything you say. Bull in a china shop. Bun in the oven. Burning a candle from both ends.

Burning bridges. You don't want to burn bridges. Bursting at the seams. An expression used to describe something full or overflowing, also when someone is overwhelmed with emotion. Bury the hatchet. An expression meaning to end a quarrel and become friendly, similar to "let bygones be bygones". Busy as a beaver, or busy as a bee. Butter someone up. An expression meaning to be quiet, tighten securely, similar to "shut your trap".

By hook or by crook. Calling the question. A reference to Parliamentary procedure, used as a motion to end debate on a pending proposal and bring it to an immediate vote, also in poker, to "call" means to match the current amount of the previous bet. Do we fund the project or not? All in favor? Call in the cavalry. A reference to the only organization of any power that could be quickly sent to impose the rule of law on the unruly populace. Call off the dogs. Calm before the storm. Candle in the wind. An expression made popular in the song by Elton John, meaning something that is particularly vulnerable, weak, fragile, or precarious and likely to fail, perish, or be eliminated at any moment.

An expression meaning to take sales away from an existing product by selling a similar, but new product. Can't hold a candle to. Can't see the forest for the trees. An expression meaning to not get so engrossed in details that you lose sight of the big picture. The Latin term translated as "seize the day" means to make the most of one's experiences or opportunities. Carrot or the stick. Provide an incentive, rather than a punishment to get people to do what you want.

Cast in stone. Catawampus or Cattywampus. Catching some "z's". Catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. An expression meaning you can win people to your side more easily by gentle persuasion and flattery than by hostile confrontation. Catch the eye of someone. An expression meaning to get someone's attention by making eye contact at the same time, or to be noticed by them. Cat got your tongue? An expression meaning you are unusually quiet, or speechless as in not knowing what to say.

This expression is an analogy that a cat won't win the game of trying to catch its tail, and you can't win a tied game of Tic Tac Toe. Cat's out of the bag. C'est la vie. Change your tune, or sing a different tune. Cheap skate. Cheshire cat. A reference to the magical cat character in "Alice in Wonderland" who disappeared except for his smile, it refers to anyone with a conspicuous and long-lasting smile. Chicken and egg situation.

It's a chicken and egg situation. Chomping at the bit. An expression originating from horses chewing on the bits in their mouths, it means to be very eager or impatient. Chose the path less traveled. Though many would say this means the freedom to be unconventional, it actually refers to a man confronted by a fork of equally worn paths who chose one, and will say he took the one less-traveled if someone asks.

Someone who has illegally seized or stolen property or the rights of another. Clear as a bell. An expression meaning easy to understand, similar in meaning to "ring a bell. Cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition. An expression meaning that a bad day can be overcome with a good attitude, similar to. An expression meaning that a bad day can be overcome with a good attitude, similar to "mind over matter". Clowning around. An expression meaning to change one's mind and not proceed with a prior commitment. Cold shoulder. Come hell or high water. Come out of your shell.

Cookie crumbles. An expression meaning the way things worked out, nothing can be done about it, similar to "ball bounces". Couch potato. An expression meaning someone is very lazy or sedentary, they could lay on the couch all day without moving. Count one's lucky stars. An expression meaning to break a promise or to abandon something because of fear, cowardice, exhaustion, or loss of enthusiasm. Creature comforts. An expression referring to things which provide physical ease such as good food, warm clothing, and accommodations.

An expression meaning something or someone that causes an unpleasant feeling of fear or unease. Cross my heart and hope to die. Cross to bear. A burden or trial one must put up with, similar to "an albatross around my neck". A slang expression used as an adjective, describing someone that has well-defined muscles. Cut both ways. An expression meaning a piece of information that can serve both sides of an argument. Cutting edge. An expression meaning the latest or most advanced stage in the development of something. Cutting off your nose to spite your face.

You're cutting off your nose to spite your face. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't. Damn the torpedoes. A quote by Admiral David Farragut during the Battle of Mobile which has come to mean continue with the planned course of action despite known risks. We're going to have this picnic even if the forecast says it will only be 50 degrees. Day dreaming. Drifting off in your thoughts to think about other pleasant thoughts instead of concentrating on the subject at hand. An expression meaning a person or a thing that is unsuccessful, useless or defunct.

Dead in the water. An expression originating from a ship unable to move, it has come to mean something has failed, and that there is little hope of it being successful in the future. Deal with the hand or cards you were dealt. Death and taxes, the only two things that are certain. Benjamin Franklin's practical epigram observing that while many things in life aren't certain, death and taxes are.

Death's door. To be so ill as to be on the point of dying, often used as an exaggeration of ill health. Deer in the headlights. Devil made me do it!

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Devil makes work for idle hands. An expression, usually used to remind children to remain busy, so they don't have time to create mischief or commit crimes. Devil's advocate. An expression meaning to pursue a line of questioning which questions or opposes whatever position is being expressed. Devil's in the details. An expression meaning the hard part is sorting out all the details, after a major agreement has been reached. Died in the wool. An expression meaning deeply ingrained as part of someone's character, similar to "bred in the bone".

Dime a dozen. Dog and pony show. Organizing an event or show to impress others or explain the value of something. To fold down a corner of a page to mark a place in a book, or something from paper with corners worn with use. Dog eat dog. An expression meaning a very competitive situation in which people can be cruel and relentless. Dog with a bone. An expression describing someone who won't give up or stop talking about something, wants more. Story link, related to being greedy and losing what you have.

Don't be like the grasshopper. An expression meaning that if you play all the time, instead of working, you might be sorry and hungry when times get tough. Don't bite off more than you can chew. Don't count your chickens until they've hatched. An expression meaning don't act on the promise or potential of something, wait until you know something is certain. Don't cry over spilled milk. An expression meaning it doesn't do any good to be unhappy about something that has already happened or that can't be helped.

Don't fix what ain't broke. Don't know someone from Adam. Don't let the fox guard the henhouse. Don't assign the duty of protecting or controlling valuable information or resources to someone who is likely to exploit that opportunity. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't rely on just one source or action, spread your resources around in case you lose that one "basket".

Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. Down for the count. An expression meaning having been, or very near to being, defeated, ruined, or overcome; from boxing, when the referee counts to 10 after a boxer has been knocked out and is down on the mat.

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Jacob is down for the count. Down in the dumps. Down the rabbit hole. An expression meaning to get distracted or caught up in something confusing that you may not be able to get yourself out of, a literary reference when Alice fell down a hole into a surreal world she couldn't understand. Down the road, in the long run. Drama queen. Draw the last straw.

Dressed to the nines. Early bird gets the worm. Ears are burning. What you say to someone who walks into the room after you've just been talking about them. An expression meaning within range of someone being able to overhear a conversation. Easy come, easy go. An expression meaning to not get upset and just go along with whatever happens. Easy on the eyes.

Eating crow. Eeny meeny miny moe. An expression referring to a childhood counting game to determine who is "it" and "not it". Egg on your face. Egg someone on. An expression meaning to taunt someone to keep doing something or provoke someone to action. Empty threats. Everything's better with bacon.

A superstitious belief that a look or stare from someone could cause material harm. Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth. Commenserate retribution or punishment which is equivalent to the original offense. Eyes are bigger than your stomach. Face the music. To be confronted with unpleasant consequences of one's actions, similar to "pay the piper". Take something for what it actually is, not a literal or exaggerated meaning.

Fall off the turnip truck. False bill of goods. Feed the fire or stoke the fire. Continue to act or provide reason for someone else to remain excited or upset. Feel it in your bones. Fifth wheel. This expression means to be involuntarily discharged or terminated from a job or assignment. Fire in the belly. Fish or cut bait. An expression meaning to take action, rather than remain at a stand-still, similar to "shit or get off the pot".

Fish out of water. Fit as a fiddle. Fit to be tied. Flash in the pan. An expression meaning something won't last or is a temporary sensation, also known as a "one hit wonder". Flying by the seat of your pants. Follow in your footsteps. Follow suit. An expression related to playing cards, in which you follow along or do what is required because those are the rules or that's what's expected. Fox in a hen house. Someone or a circumstance which clearly takes advantage of those who are helpless and indefenseable.

Full of piss and vinegar, or pep and vinegar. Full steam or speed ahead. An expression meaning to be on course or proceed as planned at an optimum pace. She's such a fussbudget! Gave someone a heart attack. Get one's licks in. An expression meaning to hit one's opponent, injure them, but not necessarily win. Get on the stick. Get religion. An expression meaning to become serious about something, usually after a powerful experience. Get the boot. An expression meaning to get kicked out of kicked off by someone in a position of authority.

Get the monkey off my back. Get the show on the road. Get the wheels in motion. An expression reminding a person to be grateful for the gift they received, without being critical of it. Be grateful for the pink socks, even though you wanted a complete outfit. Give me liberty or give me death. Words from a speech by Patrick Henry urging the American colonies to revolt against England. Giving one's eye teeth. An expression meaning to give something one considers very precious, usually in exchange for an object or situation one desires. An expression meaning to work hard to achieve good results in the tasks that they have been given.

God helps those who help themselves. An expression meaning to be self-sufficient, rather than rely on others for assistance or guidance. Go fry an egg. Going against the grain. Doing or thinking something that is different than what most people are doing or thinking. Going like gangbusters. Meaning great excitement and vigor, inspired by a mid-twentieth century American radio program Gang Busters, which began each episode with numerous sound effects.

Someone who covets other people's money, and seeks companions who may spend it for their benefit. Golden Rule. A moral lesson in The Bible Book of Matthew and in many stories: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" means to treat other people the way you want to be treated. Golden ticket. An expression meaning to get an unexpected or improbable opportunity, a reference to "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory". Good company.

An expression meaning to not be ashamed of making a mistake because respectable or important people have made the same mistake. Good for the goose is good for the gander. What is good for a man is equally good for a woman; or, what a man can have or do, so can a woman have or do. Goody two shoes. An expression usually derogatory describing someone who always does what is right, never gets into trouble.

May have come from a nursery rhyme about an orphan girl with only one shoe. Going to a dance or event without a partner, when bringing a date might be expected. Got gumption or grit. A compliment meaning someone is spirited, resourceful, and takes initiative without being afraid. An expression used to describe the best person to deal with a particular problem, or something that is a dependable solution.

Grass is always greener on the other side. An expression that means to be envious of other's circumstances as more favorable than one's own. I guess the grass is always greener. Gravy train. An expression referring to a situation in which someone can make a lot of money for very little effort. Green thumb. Green with envy.

Hack or hack job. A football and a religious term, whereby someone throws a long pass or tries for something that's a long shot on the chance it may just be successful. Hair of the dog that bit you. An expression meaning go back for a little bit more of what just got you sick like drinking alcohol to treat a hangover. Half in the bag. An expression meaning someone is drunk, "in the bag" can also mean something is secured.

An expression meaning hit or beat, attacked or forcefully criticized. Another meaning is to be extremely intoxicated. Handle on something. Hang-dog look. Hang one's hat. An expression meaning a place where someone lives, frequents, or feels comfortable. Happy as a pig in shit or happy as a pig in a poke. Happy camper. Someone who is cheerfully unconcerned about the future or possibility of problems. Hard nut to crack, tough nut to crack. Have a firm foundation. Having a "come to Jesus". An expression meaning to reveal or express one's true feelings or actions to another in order to understand the truth.

Head over heels. Literally, look up and get out of the way because something is about to hit you. Heart in hand. Heart on your sleeve. Heartstring, pulling on your heartstring. Heaven help us. A spiritual reference meaning you can't do anything else except rely on faith or fate or God or angels in heaven to save you. Hell in a handbasket or Hell in a handbag. Hello, sugar pie!

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Hemming and hawing. An expression meaning to discuss, deliberate, or contemplate rather than taking action or making up one's mind. An expression meaning to harass someone for little problems, rather than focus on the big-picture, similar to Back-seat driver". Here's mud in your eye. An expression or toast with glasses raised, then everyone drinks their beverage, similar to "Here's to your health". Here's to your health.

An expression or toast with glasses raised before everyone drinks their beverages. He's got guts. High on your horse, or acting high and mighty. An expression that means acting smitten, or bigger and more important than you really have a right to be. Highway robbery. Someone is exploiting customers by charging more than something's worth or not delivering services as promised.

An expression meaning that it is clear to see what action should have been taken after the fact. Hit something out of the ball park. A baseball reference meaning to be successful or to do something extraordinarily well. You ran that meeting like a pro, Allan, you really hit that out of the park! Hit the nail on the head. Hogan's goat. Something that is so messed up it is not even understandable or stinks like a goat. From a European goat farmer, Hoek Hogan, who raised a particularly smelly and ugly goat.

Hold your horses, hold the phone. Hold your tongue, bite your tongue, or watch your mouth. Expression a mother might say meaning don't speak, take back what you said, or stop talking! Hole in the wall. An expression describing a small, shabby place, often a restaurant or bar. In the UK, it can also mean a cash machine. Holier than thou. Holy cow, holy guacamole or holy crap. Honesty is the best policy. Horse's ass. Horsing around or rough-housing. Hot off the press. An expression meaning that something is new, just recently published, or ready to enjoy reading.

An expression meaning to be forced to acknowledge one's deficiencies or errors. Humpty Dumpty. A reference to the nursery rhyme, something or someone which once over thrown cannot be restored. I can read you like a book. An expression meaning your actions reveal your intentions very clearly opposite of "poker-face". If the shoe fits, wear it.

If you can't beat 'em, join 'em! I got your back. An expression meaning you are watching out for the well-being of someone else so no harm comes to them. I have my hands full. An expression meaning I have enough to do that I can't assume another commitment. I'll clock you or I'll knock your block off. I'll huff and I'll puff, and I'll blow your house down! An expression threatening someone to commit harm or destroy them or what's precious to them.

I'm dying to try it. I'm in the dog house. I'm stuffed. An expression meaning contented or satisfied following a delicious, plentiful meal. In a fishbowl. In a nutshell. In a pickle. An expression describing being in a difficult situation or problem with no easy answer, from the Dutch word 'pekel'. In hot water. In someone else's shoes.

It's a dog's life. While you might think this would be a good thing, the expression actually means life is hard and unpleasant. It's not over until the fat lady sings. It's not rocket science. An expression meaning an idea or term that anyone can understand without needing to be a rocket scientist. I wish I were a fly on the wall. An expression meaning you wish you'd witnessed or been present for something you didn't see directly. Jack of all trades. An expression meaning someone can do just about any task themselves or is well-versed in many skills.

Jinx someone. We haven't lost a game all season. Now we'll lose! An expression meaning a newcomer, a novice, or recruit who has just recently joined a group, and may use the experience of others to their advantage. An expression meaning to use makeshift repairs or temporary contrivances, with only the tools and materials that happen to be on hand.

Just a piece of meat. A derogatory expression meaning to be judged based on one's symbolic representation, rather than their substantive value. Keeping up with the Joneses. An expression to compare to one's neighbor as a benchmark for social class or the accumulation of material goods. Keep one's cool. Keep on trucking. An expression meaning to carry on, persevere or continue plugging away, as in "keep on keeping on".

Keep your eye on the prize. An expression meaning to stay focused on your goal or objective without distraction. Keep your eyes peeled. Kidding someone. An expression used for saying that someone wants someone to believe something, but everyone knows it is not true. Kill the goose that lays the golden egg. An expression meaning to destroy a valuable way to make a living, carry out an unprofitable action motivated by greed.

An expression meaning to something to keep one busy while waiting for something. Kiss my ass. A derogatory expression meaning that you don't care what someone thinks about what you said or did. I'm going to watch that movie whether you like it or not; you can kiss my ass! Knee jerk reaction. An expression meaning an immediate, emotional, unthinking response to a situation. Knickers in a twist or knickers in a knot. An expression meaning to get very upset about something, usually not very important.

Now, before you get your knickers in a twist, let me explain what happened. Knocking on heaven's door. The popular song by Bob Dylan, the expression means tempting fate or close to death. Knock on wood. A superstition to actually find and knock on a piece of wood after saying something you hope remains true. Known by the company one keeps. Lame or lame-ass. An expression meaning something was completely one-sided, similar to "blow-out". Last straw or draw the short straw.

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I guess you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Leap of Faith. An expression meaning to believe or attempt something whose existence or outcome cannot be proved. Learn by rote. An expression meaning to be able to quickly recall the meaning of the material the more one repeats it.

Learn something by heart. Let bygones by bygones. An expression meaning to forget about unpleasant things that happened in the past, and especially to forgive and forget something bad that someone has done, similar to "bury the hatchet". Let sleeping dogs lie. Let the chips fall where they may. An expression meaning to accept what's going to happen and to not interfere or change course. Lick your wounds. Like a bat out of hell.

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Like a red-headed stepchild. An expression meaning someone who's not like the others or who doesn't fit in. Like clock-work. An expression describing something or someone is very predictable or punctual. Like mixing oil and water. An expression meaning two things that aren't meant to be mixed together, similar to oil and vinegar they mix, but settle separately. Listen to that baby purr.

An anthropomorphic expression commonly used to refer to a properly running engine, computer or other machine. Loaded for bear. An expression describing people who stubbornly refuse to change their position or compromise to resolve a problem. Long on the tooth. An unkind or humorous expression describing someone as old.

As people age, their gums recede and their teeth appear longer. An expression meaning a venture or guess that has only the slightest chance of succeeding or being accurate. Look a gift horse in the mouth. A person who seems interested in buying something, but is just browsing, also someone who lingers around the scene of an accident, etc. Loose lips sink ships.

An expression referring to people sharing secret information that ruins everything. Lose one's head. Love is blind. An expression meaning to always see the best in people we love, overlook their faults and imperfections. Lucky devil. An expression meaning only moderately enthusiastic, unsure, or unable to commit to a position. Maybe I'll warm up to the idea later. Make your bed, now lie in it. The expression means to make a decision and now one must accept the circumstances. Man your stations. An expression meaning being singled out for special treatment, usually to be harmed. Meet your match.

An expression meaning someone who is even in skill or ability, or is a challenger. Mice will play while the cat's away. An expression meaning doing things that might not be permitted because an authority figure isn't present. Mice will play while the cat's away! Milk it for all it's worth.

Describing a very timid, unassertive, spineless person, especially one who is easily dominated or intimidated; inspired by the cartoon character, Caspar Milquetoast, created by H. Webster in Jared is milquetoast, he's too afraid to ask for a raise even though he's done great work for three years. Mind over matter. An expression meaning to use willpower to overcome physical problems, similar to "A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition". Monday morning quarterback. An expression referencing American football in which someone passes judgement on another person's decision or actions after the event.

Mother's love is blind. When you love some one, particularly your own child, you look past any physical or behavioral defects. Muddy the waters. An expression meaning to make a situation more confusing by introducing complications. Mud on one's boots. My hands are tied!

Nailed to the wall. Never cry wolf. An expression cautioning against falsely claiming a wrong or a crime, because when something actually goes wrong, no one will believe you. An expression describing a person who is habitually active or alert late at night. When anyone knows you dont advance in life without using a developed intellect. Anyone who attempts to advance in life without it will have to compromise something.

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SEX is often that chip because its an easy one we are all equipped with by birth! And you can bet your pay check you can see it in play in everyday life. Advertising abuses the hell out of sex to market their goods. Sex is a huge manipulation tool in so many areas of our lives. We will not fix one thing unless we decrease the importance of sex as an influence in our choices and increase the importance of INTELLECT dare we use this word rarely ever used in any of these discussions!

Tell a female scientist staring into some bacteria that her sex has something to do with her achievements and she will give ya the middle finger! She should! She is there because she used her intellect. This is hypothetical but it does exist. She may indeed be a very sexy woman!

There is definitely many many more examples of women who DO NOT either throw away their sexual attractions or compromise their intellect with sexual prowess in order to achieve success. Bottom line is sex played no part of that persons career and achievements. We are very sexual animals and i think on both sides of the genders we enjoy that exchange a great deal. However like any experience we must act responsibly and recognize what is priority. We simply must address the abuse of sex and use of sex as a tool and vice rather than as a personal enhanced experience between to consenting parties.

Sexual abuse isnt just between males and females. Its between males and males and females and females. So, in some sense he is not permitted even to look at her, and he is supposed to be responsible for her feelings which he has nearly no ability to understand. B He cannot permit himself to be in a meeting, dinner, or car that has just himself and some one woman or girl. D In a work management hierarchy, he does not want to report to a woman or have any women reporting directly to him.

He wants to avoid any communications with any woman for any reason. Broadly, he wants to make sure he never gives any woman or girl a chance to make a MeToo accusation. With MeToo, in the world of work or in public, any prudent man has to regard any woman or girl as an unpredictable, dangerous poisonous snake able and too ready to give him a fatal bite at any time for any reason or no reason.

Then a prudent man will advise all women and girls in his immediate family to defend themselves: A If a man flirts, then just be nasty; in flirting, men want to get back a smile; if they get back something nasty, then they will usually stop. B For more serious situations, have some blunt, defensive comments. C In risky environments, be with trusted friends, men or other women or girls. D For an actual attack, bite, scratch, kick, scream, use pepper spray, a knife, or even a gun.

Oh, please. All a man has to do is behave in the workplace the same way he does at a family Thanksgiving dinner, or in church. How hard is that? I agree with you, the current witch-hunt energy has gone way too far. But none of this hysteria is being directed at men who treat women as people, not as women. To be safe, even the Pence Rule is not nearly strong enough. Bluntly, a LOT of men just will be sure not to hire women, try not to have them in the office, just have nothing to do with any women at all for any reason except for women in their immediate family.

I outlined the solution: A On a real attack, a woman or girl should fight back and draw blood to leave evidence and then follow legal due process. B For less than an actual attack, she should use common, non-violent means, e. She expected something else? In the US legal system with due process, a man has some protections. There you have me suspected, accused, tried, convicted, sentenced, and punished knowing nothing about me except that I seem to be a man.

So, no way should I ever be within 20 feet of you. My experience is that there are so many such women that with MeToo and the media men are at severe risk even from women they have never been within 20 feet of and have never had any personal communications. As a result, a lot of prudent men will treat all women and girls outside their own immediate families as poisonous snakes with a fatal bite.

At least I think you were joking I should spank my sister…. So, sit her down and give her some guidance. Maybe at the end, give her a swat on her back side not for pain but for some humiliation and an indication of the seriousness of the issue. If she is your younger sister, then you may have to make a hard decision, do the responsible thing, and be good to her.

Rule 3: If you break Rules 1 and 2, women have the right to get angry. Rules I can certainly live with. Especially three. The world works better when we all stand up for ourselves and respect others for the same. LOL — after offering her your wise guidance. Last argument I had with my sister I got socked in the face. That was fourteen years ago. We agree on everything now. I have sparred in self defence classes and can take a hit, but she hit me as hard as she could!

That was of course the end of the argument cause I left. What can a man do? Any man or boy Can opt to alter behavior, as it does work. Same goes for women. If given a chance and is taught assertiveness. AND when the two can discuss disagreements rationally, the problems go away.

Nice if we all Could. Girls are not raised to defend themselves using rational assertiveness. My main point here is just the threat to men from MeToo. Your rules are fine but in this context are irrelevant: MeToo has no real due process, and that means that any woman can do a MeToo attack on any man, no matter how perfect, for any reason or no reason. Actually, it sounds like you break those rules pretty much non-stop. You were certainly telling Ed it is his duty to break them too. Dude, seriously!

Tough as it is to find, evidence is required. Your sexist attitude to women is right here in that post. No man has a right to hit a woman. At all. End of discussion. No exceptions. Same as no woman has a right to hit a man or a woman. The fact you would even post such nonsense as to guide someone to hit their sister tells me and anyone with half a brain exactly what you think about women. Women are not going to start accusing men who have done nothing wrong of having done so.

Look, I tried: She was brilliant. So were her sisters and their mother. Women can do things, too.

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I want a career. That was about the end for her: She continued on and with life threatening stress got her Ph. Her mother and sisters were nearly as bad. When her father was alive, he was the strong leader in the house. His wife guided the daughters and had them booked solid about 90 hours a week.

The daughters hardly had a minute of freedom and were on a track and thrilled to be getting praise from their father. There really are some women who actually can do what the current norms suggest should be the case. But what I observed from neighbors, etc. For some big evidence of a big problem, the birth rate is so low we are going extinct, literally. Well, I tried that.

I have to believe that the situation was, net, better. Firstly one example does not represent the whole. Secondly to your example of women needing leadership. I highly doubt any of that is true. Your posts tell all of us what you think of women and in doing so it makes it plainly clear that you will write anything to try and make women seem childlike, incompetent and in the need of a more powerful, more intelligent and more logical male to make the decisions.

Although I will be attacked here by people who would rather attack than either read or think, I will do you a big favor and explain your problems to you. You just massively misread what the heck I wrote. You have no good excuse: What I wrote is plenty clear, rational, well supported, and reasonable. If you are as rational as you appear to believe, then, fine. You are one of the small fraction of lucky ones. But from 1 there is some doubt here. Your being uninformed is dangerous because you are wide open to being fooled by reality and, then, causing a lot of harm for others if even not for yourself.

If those views are correct for you, then terrific — again, you are one of the very lucky ones. But if young people go into the real world with your attitudes, then they stand to encounter some really big problems, ones that can easily ruin their lives. But they are the lucky ones. Again, ignoring the strong and very common although not quite universal gender differences is being dangerously wrong.

In particular, if you send a son into the real world believing in your minimal gender differences, then the odds are high that he will have seriously wrecked life. Instead, if he wants a wife where gender differences are minimal, then he will have to look very, very carefully with a lot of insight that your attitudes will deny him.

This equality of the genders stuff makes good pop culture and maybe good politics, but it is wildly risky for a good life. There is also a lot of rock solid science that, in short, says with overwhelming strength that boys and girls are very different. For the rest of the conclusions about patterns and how to apply this stuff in real life, you will have to make your own decisions.

The social science is mostly not good enough to avoid a judgment call. But I would warn young men: That young woman you are planning to spend your life with is likely now or within 10 years mostly a lot of hormones that drive a lot of emotions that are aimed at reproductive advantage and being cared for and where rationality is commonly overwhelmed. Sure, she will retain plenty of rationality on subjects far from her core femininity; e. So, e. Eventually her husband may have to conclude that she is pursuing her security more from social climbing than from him and their marriage.

Social climbing is rationally a very poor way to do well on the K account, but that rationality can be overwhelmed by the thrill of rubbing shoulders with the wealthy elites. You are begging for a huge pile of just awful trouble for all your children if not for yourself. Collecting some solid evidence for your opinions, doing some legitimate homework, all would help open your eyes and build credibility among the rest of us.

Sounds exactly like the fake story they told women before they fought for and got The Right To Vote that men had had for Seventy Years. A democracy. How silly. A fake story about women who reluctantly report that they too, along with the thousands of others, have been harassed endlessly, stalked, groped shockingly or raped , etc, and cry out for justice: Please make him stop. Afraid of the result of their own slimy actions against women-as-objects to be bullied?

Do you believe that anyone should bully , such as rape, anyone else and that should not be legally adjudicated fairly? I worry about the many rapes Unreported due to fear of social condemnation that She brought it on herself though she did plead NOnono. Would you please google MeToo and read how many women have experienced soul-scorching sexual bullying invarious ways?

Just put yourself in her place as she is treated to violation as a piece of garbage7. Sandy, I had to learn, too slowly, too late, that boys men, here and below and girls women, here and below are different and in particular girls tend to be afraid, a lot like a fluttering little bird. Commonly be with one or more of your girlfriends.

Be with a man you can trust. If a boy says some inappropriate things, then use your no doubt excellent abilities to return a nasty look, word, remark, etc. Get some evidence, then call a lawyer, the police, a friend, go to a hospital emergency room, etc. And yet, right now, the reaction to the MeToo movement has moved rapidly into the realm of witch-hunting.

I fear that this will end up by blurring and discrediting the valid, serious problems women face in the workplace. I was thrilled at the outing of Harvey Weinstein, because that was someone who had grossly abused his power over all the women in his industry. Sexual justice is being diluted by militant prudery.

Consequences are being imposed with no attempt at rational judgment or a fair hearing. Surely I am not the only person to have noticed that hardly any of this hysteria is being directed against right-wingers, even though I know from personal experience that they are every bit as abusive as normal people, and probably more. Such an astounding claim needs some good data with good references. As I indicated, I also doubted that the claim was true. Then I asked for some data and references on that claim. He merely said that some women would permit such from powerful men.

On this point, he was likely correct and was giving some good mentoring to the Bush kid. There was an NBC interview, and she wrote a book. And, men should learn insight into why they feel free to insult sexually and verbally. Since more women are in the workplace and some getting promoted, it seems necessary that both re-negotiate for equal understanding, equal treatment so that relationships and personal effectiveness become healthier than they are now.

That was my situation with the prettiest female I ever saw, in person or otherwise. I was and she was Eighteen months, hours alone together, lots of romantic evidence, but we never kissed. Likely her mom and lots of women told her that. I was in love with her.